It’s Christmas time again. Another year is growing old. School has finished for my kids and they are tired and ready for the summer holiday. If only the weather would dry out and feel a bit more festive. Last year I wrote a blog about ethical ideas for Christmas. This year I thought I would encourage people to get creative and try ditching the bought crackers full of cheap plastic trinkets. Let’s be honest, the rubbish in commercial crackers is almost immediately forgotten. The plastic trinkets end up in the rubbish sack when the dinner table is cleared after Christmas dinner, or a few days later they go up the vacuum cleaner. If you really want them, why not make them? Or get your kids to make them for you. It is actually really easy.
It is so easy to consume things we don’t really need. We are told that buying will make us happy, but actually love makes us happy, love is what makes us feel safe and secure. Love is something you can’t buy. My husband was recently in California again for work. He was saddened to see signs everywhere saying things like “give a toy, give joy” and “Toys bring happiness”. Those billboards couldn’t be more wrong if they tried. Toy’s and things don’t bring happiness, LOVE brings happiness and joy. Sacrificial love, not love of things. Christmas is really about love, and it always has been. The first Christmas in a stable long ago was about love. It is time to reconnect a bit with the real reason for the season. It is hard to that when it’s all been so commercialised.
If we truly care for the environment then we will think carefully about what we choose to buy even at Christmas. Cheap crackers with rubbish inside that are instantly thrown away are not something that the planet needs. In light of this our family hasn’t bought crackers for years. Some years we haven’t had any at all – and I promise you Christmas wasn’t ruined because they were missing. Some years I have made them, and the response is worth the effort. People really enjoy something when they can see the effort and love you put into it.
If you or your kids are looking for a little extra something to do in the last few days before Christmas, why not give it a go. You can even do it without snaps.
First, save a few toilet rolls.
Second; google some actually funny jokes and write them on slips of paper. Or if you prefer, search up some inspiring quotes to help get people motivated for the coming year. You could even personalise it further and write a nice little note to the recipient about what makes them special in your eyes.
Third; find some nice little treats small enough to fit inside a toilet roll, chocolate coins, minties, fruit bursts, liquor chocolates etc.
If you are keen on little presents then find or make a little gift for each cracker. Usually I have chosen little Christmas decorations or small cookie cutters etc. Other ideas are pencil sharpeners, or home baking.
Forth; if you want crackers that crack, then you will need to find the snaps. I got mine from Pete’s Emporium in Petone, but I have seen them for sale in all sorts of places and if you are desperate a google search should help you to locate them.
Fifth; get wrapping – use reused Christmas wrap from last year or make your own from large pieces of paper. Or if you are brave newspaper! Use salvaged ribbon to tie the ends.
Bingo – your Christmas crackers are done. It can be fiddly but it is fun and actually it doesn’t take too long. If you turn the TV off for an hour one evening you can easily make them with the family helping around the table. You can even personalise them so everyone gets something they actually want!
I don’t know why crackers are only ever seen at Christmas…. why not make them for a family birthday to add some fun to the birthday dinner table, or New Year even? The possibilities are endless.
That first Christmas 2000 years ago was about love, but it was also about family, and relationships. Those are things that you can’t buy either. It is so easy to get caught up in the commercialisation and to feel pressured to spend and buy. But for us, our experience has always been that the best Christmas’ are nothing to do with what you get given, the best ones are always about being with others and showing them that you love them.
Excessive business and rushing in our lives and societies seems to drive us to consume more stuff. When you consciously step back from that business and choose to slow down a bit, it seems like you have more time to think about what you really need, what other people need and perhaps most importantly, what the environment really needs.
Recycled paper, ribbon, and re-purposed toilet rolls. Small treats, home baking and hand-written jokes, it really is worth the effort and it isn’t bad for the environment or your wallet. It is one small way to show your family that you love them, and to care for the planet at the same time.
Have a wonderful Christmas everyone.